Spice Up Your Sex Life: Sexy Games For Couples
Every married couple has been through that stage where you just don’t seem to have “it” anymore. By “it” of course I’m referring to the sexual passion that was all so prevalent during those years you spent making out in the back row at movie theaters and humping like rabbits in the back seat of your hatchback Honda Civic at the end of the night. So the question ultimately becomes, how do you spice up your sex life and keep each other aroused and intrigued?
Try playing some sexy games with each other to help jump start that dwindling relationship. Just make sure to lay out some ground rules ahead of time, and don’t use the situation to force your partner into something they are not comfortable with. It might be your fantasy to have sex in the bathroom at Olive Garden, or to get a couples “massage” from one of those infamous late night “spas” but if your partner isn’t up for it, it’s only going to damage your sex life further. Start by having an honest talk and coming up with ideas, expectations, and taboos.
One idea my wife and I recently tried was inspired by the movie The Ugly Truth starring Gerard Butler and the gorgeous Katherine Heigl. In one scene in the film Butler sends Heigl a pair of remote control rabbit vibrator as a gift. Curiously she tries them on while waiting for her date to pick her up figuring she has plenty of time to experiment alone and re-change. Instead she gets whisked away to attend to a business dinner while wearing the wired thong. Of course in the film she loses the remote and hilarity ensues.
However, being a bit of dominant and my wife being more submissive we thought it might be fun to try our own spin on the vibrating panties shtick. My wife donned a pair of black lace Astrea vibrating panties under her favorite black cocktail dress, I dropped the remote in my pocket, and we headed out for an evening on the town. As far as adult toys go, this one was incredibly enjoyable not only because of the actual stimulation it provided, but also because of the sense of deviance encompassed as you masturbate your partner (or self) in public. It was naughty, sexy, and down right hot to watch her squirm, moan, and bite her lip as we sat at the bar drinking martini’s and making conversation with the other patrons. And for me it was particularly enjoying to be in complete control of the experience, knowing she had zero control of how and when the sensation came. Of course the panties didn’t stay on long once we crossed the bedroom door, but they certainly heated up our night.
If discreet public play isn’t your thing, or vibrating panties just don’t appeal to you try finding a new sex toy the two of you can share. For a sure thing good time try getting a vibrating panties and adding it to your next tryst in bed. Named for the rabbit ears shaped clitoral stimulator attached to the base of this vibrator is one of the top adult toys on the market. Naturally the rabbit vibrator is designed to give women the ultimate experience, from a moving vibrating shaft designed to simulate intercourse to the vibrating ears which induce earthshaking clitoral orgasms. However, couples can find a number of uses for the rabbit which benefit both parties. All you have to do is use your imagination.
There are a number of other sexy games you can play with your spouse to spice up your sex life together. Strip poker is assured to end with all winners and no losers. Or if you are the artistic type try body paint and turn your significant others curves into a work of art. You can make a private video with a digital camera or webcam, just make sure it doesn’t find it’s way online unless you both want it to. There really are a number of sexy games you can try together than are sure to spice things up a bit. However, if you do try the vibrating panties make sure you don’t turn them on in a quiet room as they are not silent, and above all else be prepared to quench her sexual appetite when you finally get home and enjoy togther!
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This article is written by JC Cook.